Work with body and feelings is one of the most effective ways how to increase life energy and inspiration. It is very healing, rejuvenating and at the same time, it gives the feeling of love and joy. Thanks to conscious loving touch and tantra therapist’s mindfulness it is possible to experience miracles. You have the opportunity to look at love in the other context than you used to do.
Dealing with women we use much more than just knowledge of classical tantric massage. Except for anatomical knowledge and process of the massage, it is very important to know how differs female and male feelings in the body and their needs. First of all, women need trust, relaxation, and a feeling of safety in order to be open to deep experiences. The most important thing is to open their heart before touch because women seek the feeling of love and connection. In the beginning, a tantra therapist focuses on touching a face, hair, neck, palms, feet, belly and while the whole body is filling in with energy he/she gradually and carefully approaches the pelvic floor area. They say that male energy is like fire and the female one is like water – it takes a lot of time to heat it up and to cool it down. But the thing is very few men know how to treat the female body and very few women ever experienced their sensual potential to the full. We would recommend booking at least 2 hours of tantra massage if you want to deal with the pelvic floor area.
If you are not sure that such direct work with the pelvic floor suits you there is an opportunity to book tantra massage without yoni massage. You can also stay in underwear and choose between male and female massage therapists. Such a form of massage also has its benefits: it awakens sensitivity in the whole body, helps to relax, and stays more present, in the state of „here and now“.
Tantra massage for healing
From our experience, I can tell when women make appointments for tantra massage in most cases they look for healing therapy. Very often women have problems with sensitivity or painful sensations after the birth of a child or an operation. Sexual abuse, emotional traumas, stress, and suppressed emotions cause sensitivity loss as well. It is not necessary to have really big trauma to lose sensitivity. Very often it happens because of unhealthy sexual habits. For example, a woman was not aroused enough for penetration but because she wanted to look „open“ or to please her husband she allows her partner to penetrate inside of her vagina. The body gets tensed and becomes senseless because we actually do not give it what it really needs. Sensitivity loss is a defensive reaction of the body. If something bad happens in our life, especially if it is connected with the sexual experience our brain „gives the command“ to switch off sensitivity in this area to prevent trauma or stress situations in the future.
In order to bring sensitivity back, we use conscious touch, gentle techniques to awaken sensitivity and teach a client how to cooperate with a tantra massage therapist. The client’s presence and ability to play an active role in the process are the keys to success. In the course of a session, many suppressed emotions and feelings can go out on the surface, and mostly not the pleasant ones. Actually, this is a very good sign. All that is needed is just to let them go and soon they dissolve and a lot of fresh energy and joy comes.